Confucius also the it is very difficult! hard to what extent, it was considered harder than the Quiet Night, difficult to impossible for the county level. In other words, be prohibitively difficult. In fact, beyond the bounds of what is not distant dream. man many years ago to achieve and fulfill this dream. But to know a person, you can not life.
live in this world, every day we understand the You have to understand this person, perhaps someone else, or maybe is you. humanity has always been complicated, complex human nature leads people difficult to understand. Not only that, people also have social, social complexity leads to further human difficult to understand.
's difficult to understand whom we are confused, many philosophers are seeking for, and work to solve the puzzle! back in a few years ago, our great sages Mr. Kong Lao netizens had a similar issue sighs, lamenting about a person's not easy!
Confucius travel around the world, the slightest not feel comfortable! someone described it as Once trapped in Chen and Tsai Confucius two small countries. trapped result of seven days without food, not to mention what discomfort. until the disciple Yan Hui discussed elsewhere to rice, to solve the food problem.
I always think, often to a certain place, can only rely on apprentices to pick a peach ah what the Monkey King, or the handle of the Pig to go fast. In short, to discuss problems of food can only Tiandu Zi disciples. It seems, there is no disciple of the master is not called the master , while the master is always reluctant to come forward to beg for food, you need to apprentice himself to beggars.
cooked in the rice is about the time of Confucius may be hungry can not wait to place and looking towards the cooking one. This one does not matter to hope things come out. Mr. Kong Lao saw what? He saw his disciple Yan Hui, even from the cooking utensils in a handful of rice into your mouth. Confucius was heart on the very good time. apprentice how can this happen? carrying a person eat to master fast. people always say seeing is believing, the total of the right eyes see it?
but can not immediately attack Confucius! because Yen Such people should not be back. That is what Yen Hui people? Confucius had publicly praised the Road, ! Confucius, the sage, is a large Yin person. Big Yin praised by his disciples of . translated, means that Yen Hui almost saint, the Mr. Kong Lao personally seen, and they can not doubt him. until Yen Hui, the rice cooked, and then into the respectfully dedicated to Confucius, the Confucius moments like these machines deliberately Yen Hui said, today I dreamed Xianjun Food should be clean to worship ancestors. Mr. Kong Lao think I first you an army, you will not see honest account. Yanhui listened to immediately, the master said, the food can not worship the ancestors. Just now, ash fall into the rice pot (that is, cooking utensils), the throwing away food is not lucky, I catch and eat them.
Mr. Kong Lao listening to Yen Hui said, are not ashamed! Confucius, unlike ordinary mortals, after all, is a great wisdom, he was for this case, analogy of replication sighed, people believe their own eyes, but also the eye can see or not credible; are relying on is his heart, but heart is still insufficient to rely on. Finally, a word of Confucius summed up thus: it? is not easy to not fully understand! This is derived from the complexity of human nature. not just the complexity of others, as well as its own complex. such as Confucius suspected Yan Hui, Yan Hui is contrasting the simple complexity of Confucius's own . With this dual nature, you will not cross the barrier, so a thorough understanding of a person.
so in real life, we have a variety of grief and love and hate clutch! or because the other side complex, its simple; or because of their complexity, the other simple; or so on their own and each other are complex. which together caused us to the same, or too precise or necessarily seek to understand a person to complete, it is neither possible, nor is there is no need!
Yen Hui, Confucius to understand, complex, how can you can fully understand? Therefore, some great people, in understanding a person's major talent and moral character, the always , in your good servant. Liu brother insisted on the principle that the world be useful as long as I win, I can Weiyong you. even if you have problems sly, even if you like corruption, bribery, in that troubled times is insignificant. Bang brother is simple. He himself is not a virtuous persons, will never put on a look of high moral character. Nobody's perfect, no one is flawless; flawed is not terrible, terrible is definitely the result of flaws to deny a person's all.
CAO CAO Code is people to whom it is also the side! While Cao Cao was a suspicious person, suspicious to kill the dream around the time the defender will jump up, but Cao Cao is worth mentioning that the Code!
when someone cried, his lover turned out to be a liar; when someone regrets that he wronged a good person; it all, is not to is his world. about a person is to understand that one of the world; understand one of the world, just use the power of some water, but also just seen one at a point about the water. Confucius Story Big Yin who is so difficult to escape convention Shangqie also Shangqie laments about a person is not easy, let alone face in the crowd of you I do?
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